saga témája a 'In English...' fórumban , 2004 Január 5.
I always complain.
In my opinion we complain because its a kind of "sickness". We can't understand that it's not us who rules the world. We just think we do that.
Because it is in our geins!
People complain because they are not content and they are egocentric... I think that's the problem.
People are social beings and they share everything, even complaints
I am trying not to complain. I Noticed that pople like friends those who does not complain too much
But the topic is very useful.
I think we complain way too much... Sometimes I found myself complaining even if I don't really have anything to complain about only to fit the theme of the conversation I'm in, or to break an awkward silence. This is bad. I think we should sometimes forget all the bad stuff, because most of them aren't even worth to notice. Let's focuse on the good stuff and if we have something nice to say to somebody, we should say it. I think we leave a lot of nice things unsaid only because we're not used to saying such things...
I guess it's much easier for the majority of people to moun and complain about things, situations, people, transport etc. than actually deal with the problem or the issue...complaining=no hassle; dealing with them = way to many hassles...
In my opinion majority of people are ignore those people who do complain. I never complain or just only rarely. I would rather more people do envious me than one pity me . I keep my complain inside me. That's why people are think I am rush. I am always happy to things which I have and never complain for things which I don't have.
It's the best to be thankfull for all of your life, your connections, etc. Complaining generates more situations & more wrong energies which you want to avoid in fact...
...yesss, Phoenix, I do agree with you...it generates wrong "energy"...but, sadly people are ignorants and don't really care...they want their say to be heard and that's it, don't care about others
I guess complaining is a way of getting attention, makes the person feel like "somebody" of some importance. Some situations demand complaining, but most of the time it's just "whinning".
Do you know those, who are complaining even if they get money? They want much more...
Never satified ! That is a huge problem with society in general. Many just put too many things on their backs, and it's always someone else's fault.
It's also possible that complaining (for some) has become a bad habit, just like smoking.
Because we are Hungarian
And it also gives the feeling of a kind of conversation for those, who like complaining! (Sorry, for my poor English, if I'm wrong..)
It means, they won't agree with the responsability of what they did in their lifes.
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