why are we complaining?

I think we complain way too much... Sometimes I found myself complaining even if I don't really have anything to complain about only to fit the theme of the conversation I'm in, or to break an awkward silence. This is bad. I think we should sometimes forget all the bad stuff, because most of them aren't even worth to notice. Let's focuse on the good stuff and if we have something nice to say to somebody, we should say it. I think we leave a lot of nice things unsaid only because we're not used to saying such things...
 
I guess it's much easier for the majority of people to moun and complain about things, situations, people, transport etc. than actually deal with the problem or the issue...complaining=no hassle; dealing with them = way to many hassles...:)
 
In my opinion majority of people are ignore those people who do complain. I never complain or just only rarely. I would rather more people do envious me than one pity me . I keep my complain inside me. That's why people are think I am rush. I am always happy to things which I have and never complain for things which I don't have.
 
Utoljára módosítva a moderátor által:
It's the best to be thankfull for all of your life, your connections, etc. Complaining generates more situations & more wrong energies which you want to avoid in fact...
 
phoenyx írta:
It's the best to be thankfull for all of your life, your connections, etc. Complaining generates more situations & more wrong energies which you want to avoid in fact...
Kattints a kibontásához...
...yesss, Phoenix, I do agree with you...it generates wrong "energy"...but, sadly people are ignorants and don't really care...they want their say to be heard and that's it, don't care about others :(
 
I guess complaining is a way of getting attention, makes the person feel like "somebody" of some importance. Some situations demand complaining, but most of the time it's just "whinning".
 
Never satified ! That is a huge problem with society in general. Many just put too many things on their backs, and it's always someone else's fault.
 
Raktajino írta:
It's also possible that complaining (for some) has become a bad habit, just like smoking.
Kattints a kibontásához...
And it also gives the feeling of a kind of conversation for those, who like complaining! (Sorry, for my poor English, if I'm wrong..)
It means, they won't agree with the responsability of what they did in their lifes.
 
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